Kenosis

In an IPS thread on agape Balder in this post discussed Desmond's kenotic take on it, different than Wilber's. So we might say that kennilingus has kenosis, if by that we take the suffix osis added to ken: -osis: a suffix occurring in nouns that denote actions, conditions, or states, especially disorders or abnormal states.

Interesting about Lingam's notion of agape (see Balder's post), when dysfunctional it becomes Thanatos. It reminded me of the suicidal urge expressed through ultimate love of all Others, the sacrifice of Christ. And this discussion of Black Swan.